I’ve stayed off social media the past couple of days. I knew that what happened on 09.10.2025 would become another polarizing moment in our country’s history. And with 09.11 right after, my heart has been heavy. I’ll never forget where I was on 09.11. I was in my mid twenties, watching NBC with Katie Couric... Continue Reading →
Okay so here's my lame attempt to write a poem for you, T-Mitch: Memories haunt me Yet they cure me Losing you has been the worst challenge I'm not sure how much more I can manage I'm doing what it takes to survive And on a mission to keep your memory alive Just know you're... Continue Reading →
I feel like I haven’t been dreaming enough lately or maybe it’s because I miss waking up and sharing them with Torey - now I end up forgetting them. I need to get in the habit of writing them down! I did have a funny one where I actually woke up laughing recently: My Uber... Continue Reading →
Houston 2005 @ Memorial Park T-Mitch was still on call at work - therefore he still had his work badge around his neck and this ended up being a toy that Das played with on Torey's day off! It was humid, yes, but that's Houston! We were nothing but giggles that day! I can still... Continue Reading →
Being a serious NFL fan, like many, T-Mitch appreciated the halftime shows! I was lucky enough to watch almost each one with him since I turned 19 (I can't remember times we didn't watch Super Bowls together, and that may be another conversation!)! I seriously wish he was around for last year's with Dr. Dre,... Continue Reading →
I love heavy rain when I'm home ... Torey and I had some incredible moments during times like this! But ... that's not why I'm writing right now. I just updated the blog site - kinda have an itch to help anyone who needs website needs. I'm currently helping a friend with her blog site... Continue Reading →
I’ve been having some weird dreams lately. Here are a few: 1) I was showing my 10-year-old Das how to read an over-the-counter pregnancy test while Torey (late husband) was laughing his ass off! 2) I was at a party with people from the 1800s in a haunted mansion and I got possessed by a... Continue Reading →
You’re right … it’s been a while since I posted anything. I’ve been kind of dreading this process to document the following milestones: My son’s senior year of high school: Spring season of baseball Senior celebration day Baseball Banquet Prom Graduation Yes, tears were shed before and during and even afterwards of all these moments.... Continue Reading →
Around 10 years ago, Torey, Das and I went on a spring break trip to San Antonio. Torey’s Uncle and his family who live in San Antonio invited us to hang out and celebrate his Uncle’s 45th birthday. This trip was so EPIC! Facebook reminded me of this moment a few days ago and the... Continue Reading →
It’s been a minute, right? Sorry – I haven’t been doing a good job in documenting my moments as a damn widow. My bad. I’ve been a bit overwhelmed, but I won’t get into those details. I would, however, like to get into a certain aspect of the grief process and that is [insert drumroll... Continue Reading →
Belligerent Gus 